last friday was my best friend's wedding, everything went smoothly. She was happy, her mother was happy, as well as her dad, makcik dia,pakcik dia, 1st cousin, 2nd cousin.. sume happy. Including me.. I was happy. Happy to see my best fren merangkap kawan seperjuangan since form 1 yg dulu same2 membuat cubaan cabut sekolah (sorry cikgu..we weren't that innocent..) at last.. settled down.. for good. Who knows aite? we never know.. dulu, on the last day of SPM, we were talking craps bout what we're goin to be by age of 25.. everybody said that by that age everyone must be married.. got lotsa little ones.. have a monthly subscription of majalah Keluarga or Anakku perhaps.. weekend outings to Tesco ( to topup groceries in the refrigerator).. balik rumah mentua.. woaaa.. I guess our predictions ain't real at all.. heh. It happens to some of us, but practically not to the majority. y ar? time flies and time changed.. we're still the same person but in a different environment. I'm not dat desperate to get hook up, but the pressure keep increasing day by day when you see your friends, one by one start talking about their coming wedding, hantaran lah, their growing kids lah.. fuhh.. Tension a
nyone?Talking bout kids, i met my old school mate on mai's wedding nite and guess what.. she's married and she got two adorable kids. To see her changes since last time we met, mmg obviously changing. Usually bila beborak we used this term "kau ni.. bla..bla.." or "aku hari tu..bla..bla.." and suddenly she was like "siti hari tu kan..bla..bla.." and i was like.. woaa.. wait a minute since when the "kau" "aku" part turn into "siti" and "erin".. its not a big matter babe, but it was creepy man.. she explained that nowadays her friends are all the kakaks and makciks.. so their conversation turn out to be more graceful than we used to. I was like..ookay..nevermind.. we understand. Ahah.. the revolution begins.. my 25 year old friend trap in a body of 34 year old woman. But, who's to blame? Looking at a bright side, she's happy with her kids, enjoys talking bout the size of diapers and milk brands, give us valueable tips on where to get cheaper groceries ( kedai jimat near her house) and where to bargain (kedai jimat near her house too.. ) and finally she's happy and complete. Erm, complete.. i wonder is it true marriage makes a woman complete. Why can't we be completed and single? Is it crime being an unmarried woman at 25?
p/s : congratulations to all my married frens and newly weds.. advanced congrates to my almost married fren.. Jue.. I'm so happy for u darl and can't wait for the wedding. Mak cili here i come.. :)
